When you look for love what do you find ? I bet you don't find what you think "Love" is or what it should be. Often times when we become desperate (don't looked shocked ! it happens to ALL of us) we start to become needy and grow attach to watever person is around because it's more convenient. Meaning, the person you keep saying "i love you" to, you don't rlly love . You're only saying it bcuz you're searching for something that you think you're missing. We become accustomed to feeling some sort of way once being in the same environment for so long . Being in a long term relationship , and then becoming single is hard for everyone . But you cannot go out and "look" for love, bcuz it simply doesn't happen that way . Love comes in all shapes and sizes, and is extremely spontaneous . It's not planned nor is it expected , it comes when you're the most vulnerable and when your heart is at ease . Physically and Mentally straining your heart can not be healthy, stressing about who's going to love you and who's love is rlly "true" and "pure". If you have to question if the person's love is true, then the obvious answer is no. REAL love isn't questionable ; it's a state of pure and raw emotions that can not be condemned or seduced . The feeling never fades and they stay mutual over time. So in your next relationship, do you rlly LOVE tht person or do you love the friendship you two have acquired ?
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