Summer Turned Into Fall . .

Trends and Hot Topics of 2010 Fall Fashion can be exemplified in these photographs.

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Forgetting Something . . ?

Ever notice the people that you've been there for the longest always treat you the worst? Soo quick to throw temper tantrums and toss you out the window over petty arguments or fights. But yet they fight for the love and affection of those they've jst met ? Does anyone else find it weird or ironic? But that's okayyyyy, and that's fineeee. No longer will I extend my limbs for someone who can't seem to do the same for me. And trusttttt, when you need those who are really down for YOU and they're not there ... Guess you'll realize something eh ?

C'mon Yo !

Now, I am a strong advocate for loving yourself and your body. I personally have suffered from being poked fun at for not having an overly develop body like my colleagues. And at first, I use to envy girls that had more this and more that than me. But I'm at a stage to where I rlly dont give a fuck about who and what has something to say about MY body. . But that's not what this blog is about, this post is about the INDECENT exposure I along with MILLIONS of other ppl have been subjected to. Now loving your body is one thing but showing everyone on twitter and facebook is something different. People may say "well dont click on my pictures !" I dont . . but when you tag 100+ people in a picture of you in your bra, I have no other choice but to see the picture on my news feed. And when you tweet and your twitcon is a picture of you showing everything but your face, what the hell do you expect ? People are going to see you. But the attention you're grabbing is everything but positive. The flattery and flirty comments may last two or three minutes, but the rep you're setting for yourself is going to last for two or three years. Men dont respect girls who have everything to offer up front. That's obvious. The old phrase "can't turn a hoe into a housewife" is not just for pun lines in jokes. That quote is REAL. What man is going to want to take a girl serious when she's offering mini soft porn pictures for him and ALL his homeboys to see ?

Me NOT You

We were all born in this world, alone . . I mean unless you were a twin. But even then, you are still birthed A L O N E. So why as humans are we soo afraid of isolation or being alone ? The thought that I might be by myself in a few months doesn't bother me. Im use to being alone, and Im perfectly fine with it. I dont need to depend on other people to make me feel as though I have a purpose, nor do I need anyone else to feel "complete." I dont need to run and tell people my feelings or emotions every time they change, and I dont need other people to give me confidence that I can give myself. Now don't get me wrong, compliments here and there are appreciated and can turn an almost stressful day into a reliever. But they are NOT needed. Being by yourself can help you learn more about who you are and what type of person you want to be. From being left alone soo often, I've learned Im not the type of person who needs the approval of others nor do I live my life based on what others "think" is right. My mistakes? My business. I need help, I'll ask. But until then, I dont think I'll mind spending these next few moments alone. I mean what's one more moment really going to do?

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